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First, don't deny your suspicions.
Drug addiction takes time but occurs much faster with a child
than an adult. Some of the newer drugs (especially crack) can quickly lead
to addiction. Parents
should act on their suspicions. Denial may waste precious time. A child's
life may be in danger.
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Second,
learn to recognize the symptoms of drug abuse. The warning signs listed
above are
important clues to a child's involvement with drugs. Some readily noticeable
physical symptoms
include a pale face, imprecise eye
movements, and neglect of personal appearance. Some less
noticeable symptoms involving social interaction include diminished drive or
reduced ambition, a
significant drop in the quality of
schoolwork, reduced attention span, impaired communication
skills, and less care for the
feelings of others.
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Third,
be consistent. Develop clear rules in the areas of curfew, accountability
for an allowance and where your teen spends his or her time. Then stick with
these rules. Consistent guidelines
will allow for less opportunity to stumble into sin of any kind.
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Fourth, open
up lines o communication with your
child. Ask probing questions and become informed about the dangers
of drugs and the potential risk to your child.
Finally, be tough. Fighting drugs takes patience and persistence. Don't be
discouraged if you
don't make headway right away. Your unconditional love is a potent weapon
against drugs
